So was the case this day in Walmart. Black down parka and black ray bans donned, Billy stood looking straight ahead at a kaleidoscope of bright mostly neon colors. Yes Billy was in the girls department standing in front of the pajama section. And standing right next to him was a little red headed girl who was no more than four or five years old. She too was admiring the palette of pajamas. A mutual admiration club, they both reveled at the endless color compositions.
And then it happened. The little red headed girl’s mother saw them standing right next to each other. A tad nervous, the mother suggested gently that she come closer to her. As this brief exchange happened, Billy looked straight ahead at the clothing color wheel. Free of any cultural norms, Billy sees no barriers and neither does the little red headed girl. She looked at her mother and then she looked up at Billy. Turning her child face toward her mother, she said “it’s okay, mom.”
Billy may be unaware of gender norms but I think he knew that the little red headed girl who stood by his side truly shared his love of colors.
A moment of grace.
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